Medical trauma and medical PTSD are two of the most under-identified and misunderstood occurrences in today’s medical system, even in our own developed, educated country. Doctors are supposed to be trustworthy and well intentioned, they even take a vow to do no harm. From day one we are taught to put trust in doctors, nurses, and any other medical professional, trust them with our personal thoughts, habits, and of course our bodies, our minds; hospitals and doctors offices are supposed to be “safe zones” if we need help… but is this always the case?
From my years of battling chronic illnesses I’ve seen TONS of doctors, specialists, nurses, xray techs, med students, etc. and it’s shocking how some of them treat patients. I can give you handfuls of personal experience with negligence, betrayal, false accusations and biases, and personal traumatic experiences brought on by the medical systems, doctors and nurses themselves. I’ve gotten to a point where I have anxiety over new doctors, a true fear of admissions to the hospitals who are said to be there for treatment, help, healing. I’ve been denied medical treatments by insurance agents who don’t even have a degree in medicine or pharmacology, but choose money over my quality of life. There’s so much more to the medical system than the average person imagines.
To share another perspective, I’ve been given permission to quote the testimony of one of the kindest, most respectful and compassionate fellow “spoonies” that I have gotten to know thanks to online networks that let us find one another with just a hashtag.
So, thank you Nicole, and here we go…
“Ever since I started struggling more and more with my medical trauma and also was recently officially diagnosed with medical PTSD so I wanted to spread awareness about how traumatic this chronic life can be. From doctors treating you badly, to traumatic surgeries or procedures to doctors not believing you to life threatening situations there are unfortunately many possible traumatic parts of being sick and/or disabled and it needs to be talked about more.
Vivid nightmares. Anxiety and panic attacks. Depression. Avoidance. Flashbacks and intrusive memories. Always on guard. Easily startled. Trouble experiencing positive emotions. Loss of interest in things that you enjoy. Trouble sleeping and concentrating. Irritability. Guilt.
These are just some of the things that come along with medical trauma or PTSD.
Unlike with some other types of trauma, for us who are complex chronically ill and/or disabled patients we literally cannot avoid our trauma. We cannot avoid hospitals, doctors, medications, treatments, surgeries, etc. This makes coping with and healing from medical trauma very very challenging. For me even little things like doing my daily line and tube care can bring on flashbacks of sepsis hospitalizations and awake, painful IR procedures and things like new patient appointments can bring on severe anxiety about possibly not being believed. This can cause us to generalize all our trauma and have anxiety and PTSD symptoms around everything medical not just the traumatic event/s. For me I get awful anxiety when I have any kind of medical appointment due to the trauma being brought back through intrusive memories, feeling unsafe and a strong urge to run/get home ASAP, agitation, impatience, feeling like I may literally explode from anxiety and panic and much more.
All trauma, no matter what it is or how severe, is real, valid, important and is deserving of healing, therapy, support, treatment etc.
Medical Trauma and medical PTSD needs more awareness so doctors, nurses, medical professionals etc can be aware that it exists, that is a huge struggle for the patients that deal with it every single day, and learn how to help it and do everything they can to try to prevent it.
We have to strive to make healthcare *Human*Care so that medical trauma and PTSD stops for good and no one else ever has to go through such a horrific condition again! Maybe if medical professionals treated us as actual HUMANS – not just another medical case – many of these traumatic situations could be avoided.”
Quote by Nicole P // IG @itsapotsielifeforme
Sadly, Nicole and I are not the only ones dealing with this. I think you would be amazed at how many chronic illness patients have experienced some form of trauma through the medical system.
I just recently had another experience with a doctor I have been seeing for years and had developed a good relationship with when out of the blue he lied to me and denied me the treatment I have been on, when out of nowhere he decided to put blame on an innocent party and deny me relief. How could someone let someone suffer when he had the ability to help, to help me have some relief from pain? Does that seem helpful or harmful?
Not only has he stolen my pain relief, but he has stolen my faith in him and triggered my anxieties and fears from past trauma and past doubters. Do I not deserve to live to my fullest potential? Why would one human – who took an oath to do no harm, to help patients in any way possible – leave another human suffering, by choice?
If you are a patient who has experienced something like this or any other medical trauma or neglect or malpractice, share your story with me and I will share it on my blog & on my social media pages – let’s bring light to this issue.
For more details just message me!
Thanks to my readers for reading and taking time to be aware. Keep an eye out for more to come✨