Shop Away, Newbie Tubie Style

Below are NewbieTubie Package shopping lists and links to our wishlists for items we are in need of right now! This list is current and we keep our wishlists updated based on supply!

We are so thankful for each and every donation, we truly cannot do this without your support and generosity! We are in need of donor support for products as well as for shipping fees to keep going, so share our posts to help us reach more donors so that our loyal followers and community don’t have to keep funding it 😉

Thank you in advance and please don’t hesitate to reach out with questions or suggestions on fundraising or other possibilities ✨

ETSY: https://www.etsy.com/people/rsb4fc/favorites/newbie-tubies-wish-list?page=3

AMAZON:   MAIN LIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1J7LHVRD4V3A6?ref_=wl_share

BUDDIES NEEDED: One fun way to get involved is to sponsor a button buddy! All you have to do is pick out a special stuffed animal we can use to create a ButtonBuddy for a special newbie

You can purchase a buddy online & add a note so we know who it is from, can share your name with the newbie (if you’d like), & can send you photos when we create the Button Buddy and send it out! 📬

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/W9IXBH9TFV4A?ref_=wl_share

Sponsor a Book! https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/A2HGIE93P9BL?ref_=wl_share

Another fantastic donation option is purchasing a tubie-geared children’s book!

Whether they are for little tubies, little ones who have a parent, sibling, or friend with a feeding tube, or for a tubie to share with their classmates, youth groups, sports teams, etc to help normalize the idea of tube feeding and take away any feelings of fear or anxiety for both the tubie and their peers/loved ones, these books can bring so much joy, love, comfort, & self acceptance to a little tubie and their team.

Both toys and books are a way kids learn about the world & normalize, so reading about feeding tubes with young kids can make this incredibly foreign concept, meaning the tubes & the idea of “eating” through the tube on your belly – into something they are aware of, have a basic understanding of, and don’t consider to be icky or scary or weird. It’s just a feeding tube, it’s how some people eat, let’s go play now. How cool is that? Kids are truly incredible in how open they are to learning and how ready they are to accept new ideas, new experiences, how many different ways you can achieve the same goal. We should all be raised with open minds and warm, welcoming arms, we should all live to accept one another and our differences. Life is boring any other way.

PAY PAL: positivelyrachel101@gmail.com // VENMO positivelyrachel/positivelyrachel101@gmail.comi

Of course, monetary donations are always welcome and appreciated We are currently running on fumes fund wise, it keeps us from sending more packages out. So share our pages. Share your own story, that’s what people love to read. If we sent you a package, post about it! Did it make a difference? Share a photo, ask them to support & then share in honor of you✨

ShoppingList: NewbieTubies Supplies (forever changing inventory)

*TUBIE ITEMS- We always need tubie pads **, clips**, tracheostomy pads, and more! Our Etsy list is the place to go!

*BARRIER CREAMS – We need barrier creams (similar to diaper creams!) for our newbies to use – 3x antibacterial ointment and calmoseptine ex.

CHAPSTICK – We are out of chapstick and it is that season again! send us your favorite kind to share with a newbie!

FACE MASKS/Self Pampering- (Skin care masks, not surgical/COVID masks) We love including care items as well as spa/pamering items like face masks & epsom soaks and nail kits to let people do at home pampering post op! A little self care is always comforting & refreshing while recovering or admitted

FACE MASKS – AGAIN? We do love including surgical masks, so if you make cute COVID masks, send them our way!

Baby Bath & More – bath supplies, fun bath paints & crayons, fizzers, foams, etc are always great; also sponges, towels, bubble bath, and bath toys & bath books! We also use baby socks, chewies, musical fun, and all care items.

Onesies – Solid colored onesies – if you have any of these on hand or see them on sale, send them our way!

FUZZY SOCKS – who doesn’t love these? 

MINI GERM X – you can get these for 97C at Walmart as well as at any pharmacy or the dollar store! It is SO important that our recipeints have these while they heal, especially since they are having surgery during COVID19. So when you shop for yourself in person, for pickup, or online, add in a few for Newbie Tubies! Also on Amazon

Mini QTips- right by the mini germ x are mini qtip containers! We love these for every package so send them our way next time you see them! Also on amazon

Thank you to everyone who reads, shares, and donates to our efforts. You areall making a difference for someone who’s is in need of happy mail and love, so you can feel good about that. Sometimes giving feels even better than getting, and I can guarantee that this is one of those times 🙂

Button Buddies

When I was a little girl I LOVED my dolls. My first american girl doll looked just like me and I took her everywhere. We wore matching clothes and I even cut my hair to match hers (big mistake). For me, my dolls were so much more than just toys to have fun with, they brought me joy and comfort whereever I was – especially since I was so shy and often needed that “security blanket.” 

It’s not difficult to find dolls with wheelchairs, crutches, casts, glasses, even diabetic kits and dolls who are beautifully bald, but feeding tubes? No way, tubes are not good for the brand, not something kids recognize, not cool like casts that can be signed or wheelchairs that can allow you to take the special, rarely used elevator at school – yet for those who have tubes, these toys can make an incredible impact, and that is why I’m here to be their voice.

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Kevin, my “tubie friend,” has a central line & tube(s) like mine!

When I got my first feeding tube (oh so long ago), my mom made me a “button buddy” by hand and to this day, that koala, Kevin, goes with me on every long trip to the specialists, every hospital admission, and is always arms reach away when I’m not in my “safe space” or when I’m struggling to feel strong and positive about my situation. For me, my buddy represents the love and support I recieve from my mom and the rest of my family as well as the strength and perserverence I have had since getting my first tube, my first diagnosis even. Kevin has two tubes and a central line now, and he’s been a trooper through it all.

With toys like these kids are able to share about things that may otherwise be difficult for them to communicate or to understand; through play they are able to learn from one another and see all of these new things in a way that is not scary or confusing, just kids being kids – all together, blind to any differences, and every child deserves that, tubie or otherwise. 

If the buddy goes to a child with a parent who is a tubie, the child can now not only watch while their mom/dad is “eating” or doing fluids or changing the dressing, but with a buddy, the child can now participate by using the buddy to do these tasks right along side their parent! The same is true of siblings of tubies, classmates, and tubies themselves as they learn to care for their tubes and go through procedures, hospital visits, tube replacements, and feeds or medications that they have to do daily at home or inpatient. 

Button buddies allow everyone in the tubie’s life to be involved in as much of their loved one’s journey as possible in a hands on way that can help them learn and grow and understand all of the unknowns and fears they came in with. Heck, even care takers can get a practice round in on a buddy if they’re feeling anxious about how to hook up their tubie or access a line, prime out the air, etc.

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thank you AMT for the tubie bears!! what an incredible donation, I’m humbled and overjoyed.

Buddies have the ability to provide comfort beyond the normal “safety blanket” item that most have and are attached to as children, it becomes another warrior in your battle and another supporter in your journey.

The incredible thing about play is that children will take in a new toy and hardly even notice any “difference” in it, in this case they may ask what the tube is, maybe what it is for, but likely no more than that, and then it’s just another toy. There’s no judgment, no prejudice, simply children playing together, learning as they go, growing, and that in turn becomes them widening their perspective and accepting one another with no qualifications, no recognition of their differences – just as they took in their toys.

When I give a button buddy to one of our little tubies and they see that tube, the light that comes into their eyes is just incredible. Suddenly that toy & it’s very expensive piece of plastic in its tummy changes how even the “littles” themselves see the feeding tubes, how they accept their own tubes, how they accept themselves. IMG_3006

You can so clearly see  that the  button buddy – a stuffed animal –  has the power to change how these children view their tubes from being a medical device that makes them different  into a part of their body that makes them special, that their tubes are not scary or gross or something to be ashamed of. When they fell in love with their Button Buddy tube and all, they have accepted themselves – tube and all.

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My goal this year is to spread the love and the comfort that my button buddy has brought me with as many of our “newbies” as I can, and that’s all in thanks to our donors who have donated the tubes and stuffed animals or the funds for our animals and the shipping costs it takes us to send out our packages.

We’ve had incredible donations from both AMT (Applied Medical Technology, Inc.)and eSutures Medical Supply Sales, both of whom are making it possible for us to send buddies to an incredibly increased amount of tubies this year than any year past ( we are still always looking for low profile tubes) and I just can’t wait to share this with you all….

If you want to sponsor a Button Buddy you can do so by making a donation of anywhere from $12 (for just the animal) – $30 (for the button & “surgery”) – each bear is valued at $30 and shipping is $8-$15 each.

PayPal & Venmo are both @positivelyrachel.com

You can also purchase an animal and send that to us to use to create a buddy! We have an amazon list or you can pick one out on your own and ship it to us!

Here is our AMAZON Buddy link!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/W9IXBH9TFV4A?ref_=wl_share

Xoxo

Rachel